Making Contacts

Some people will tell you that it's all about whoyourself fresh in their mind, or to further build and
you know, others will say it's all about what youmaintain that contact. Above all use common
know. In actuality, it's both. So just how do yousense. Don't go harassing people, don't hound
know the "right" people? How do you makethem, but do be persistent where it's appropriate.
contacts? It's best to start with an understandingWhen Making Contacts....
of the basics of why contacts are important.When you are making new contacts be
The Importance of Who You Knowpersonable, approachable, polite, and friendly.
Just how important is it? Well you certainly can't(Remember talk doesn't have to be all about
do everything on your own, no matter howbusiness all the time! Small talk can be a good
talented and resourceful you are. At some pointthing!) Be on time where relevant. You don't want
something will come up that is outside of youryour first impression that you give to be that of
expertise, or you simply won't have time to doan unorganized or unreliable person. Be consistent:
everything yourself. Not only that, but there willand by this it's meant that your words should
always be some one out there who knows morematch your actions. Speak in a manner that best
about something than you, and vice versa. Call it asuites you and who you are working with; BE
trade if you will, but everyone needs something,ARTICULATE.
and wants to go somewhere.All of this ties in with being self aware. Do you
Contacts are important in so many ways, be it asknow what you look and sound like when you are
a resource, collaborators, or sometimes as merespeaking?? If that terrifies you then try doing
support. Contacts are a way of networking andsome practice. Record yourself talking and see if
finding people who a) need a skill you posses, b)you have favorite stutter words like: um, like,
have a skill you need, c) know what you do and"know what I mean", "ya know", any possible
can recommend you or employ you in someslang you often repeat.
way, or d) a person who you will likely networkAlong with being self aware, know what you can
through to reach other contacts later on.and can't do. This sounds simpler than you might
Contacts are important, make no mistake aboutthink. Say you are suddenly called in to work on a
it. The most often overlooked aspect of makingproject. The tasks of the project are completely
contacts is this: BE SOME ONE TO KNOW. This iswith in your skill set, only the time budget is much
why contacts are who they are. They are somenarrower than you are used to. It is here
one to know. So all the more reason for you toimportant to assess and know ahead of time if
become some one who can also be regarded inyou can or can't do something. This is important in
this context. Before anything is said and done; inbuilding and maintaining contacts because if you
any sort of relationship, business or otherwise,don't know what you are capable of, how can
there is usually an element of give and take. So,some one else?
to that end, finding contacts will be difficult if youLastly, don't come across as needy or desperate.
don't at least have something to offer. Now, thisAlthough its common to be desperate for
is not to say that you can't make contacts withwork,try not to appear desperate to make a
out some sort of skill, but as it stands, as ancontact with some one. No one wants to board a
economic principle, it's really all about supply andsinking ship. If you come across as pushy,
demand. So what if you are new? Fledgling? Achances are you may put the contact off from
hobby? A Student? Even if you are just startingwanting to work with you entirely. Remember
out, at very least you can offer help, cheap labor,that there is a fine line between desperate and
or any other skills that you might have to offer,eager, and between needy and enthusiastic.
like free time.The "Gift of Gab"
Where To Find ThemSo once you've made or found a contact, what
Contacts can most obviously be found throughneeds to happen? Firstly it needs to be clear what
friends, co-workers, family (if you are lucky),you do, and what you can offer. Are you a
colleagues, or even mentors. Often timessinger? Are you good with a few key pieces of
contacts are people we might not even considersoftware? Are you a multi-instrumentalist who
contacts because we are too familiar with them.can do things in no more than three takes? You
Do you have a friend who is great with webget the point. Be able to clearly define what it is
design? How about the friend who works at thatthat you do, or what it is that you aim to do if
trendy cafe/bar? They aren't often theyou aren't yet doing it. If you can't chances are
glamorous industry contacts that you might bepeople will have a hard time finding a use for you.
seeking, but they are invaluable in your earlySecond, when speaking with a potentially new
stages, and later on as well. What's more is thatcontact be interested in what they do,
they are more likely than anyone else to help yougenuinely.Remember you are both hoping to be
because you already know them, and hopefullyuseful to each other at some point. (Even in the
are your friends.case of an already established contact, they may
If you've exhausted your Rolodex at that rate,be looking for some one with potential who can
and still come up wanting, it's time to make somehelp them later if possible.) Again, knowing what
new contacts. So where can you meet and makeyou do is key, and in this scenario knowing how
new contacts? C'mon folks! There's a wholeyou work is very important. Everyone has
damnindustry dedicated around it now:different ways of working. Are you an organized
NETWORKING SITES! It might not be often thatworker? Do you like mornings? Do you tend to
you'll meet people from this sort of endeavor,do everything in one sitting, or do you chip away
and be careful if you do (that's a given), but it's aat things gradually? Knowing these things about
starting point.yourself not only helps you communicate this to
How about gigs? If you go to see live music,people you want to work with, but it also helps
chances are, you will be surrounded by peopleyou figure out who you will be most compatible
somehow involved in what is going on. Here's awith. Sometimes it is a yin-yang balance, and
scenario: The live sound engineer toils away nightsometimes it's a two people sharing a brain
after night, sometimes mixing great bands,partnership. Figuring out your limits early on is also
sometimes mixing stuff they'd never wished toimportant when making contacts. What are you
hear. After the band, the groupies, and thewilling to do? And for how much and for how
roadies have packed up, chances are the engineerlong?
might still be around (unless they have some sortAgain if you aren't clear about what you want
of union gig going on). If you were a personand how you operate, contacts will have a difficult
interested in live sound, for example, go ask themtime knowing how you operate, and often the
questions. Chances are, if they aren't too busy,way you work is what is most important when
tired, or in a rush to leave, they'll be likely to bepeople are deciding whether or not to work with
happy to tell you a little bit about what they do. Inyou. (This is not to say that the way you work
that simple scenario there are a million waysmight change over time, or that you might be
things could go, but if you're lucky, by the end offlexible in some areas for certain cases.) People
the conversation you will have made a contact.will want to work with some one who they know
When you meet new people it's a good idea tothey can get along with and work with, just the
have a business card, where relevant. If yousame as you would. No matter how great a
exchange contact information be sure to followcontact , if you don't mesh well then there's really
up and follow through. People are busy, so dropno point.
them a line a day or two later, just to keep